I have been described as a helpful person. At times I wish I am not because it hurts when I felt used or been taken advantage of my helpful nature. I never expect anything in return to help a person out. I just do not want to be taken advantage of, that's all.
When I get into such as situation, that's when I will say to myself to be selfish but I never listen to myself as I do not know how to be selfish. Can someone teach me how to be one!!